Threadbare Words – LOVE

My earliest memory of the word LOVE, is listening to my mother sing along with singer/song writer, Jackie DeShannon. “What the world needs now, is love, sweet love. It the only thing that there’s just too little of. What the world needs now, is love, sweet love. No, not just for some, but for everyone.”

This song, released in the mid-60s, was a plea for something that was missing in the culture –love. The United States had just become involved in the Vietnam War, then Robert Kennedy was assassinated. This song became a sort of audio vigil for a country shaken by political violence. A Los Angeles radio station played the song again and again for over 24 hours. It was an old-school “social media” instrument that pulled a mourning country together.

That tragedy, and a whole generation, confronted our country for its lack of love. I believe we still need to be confronted for our lack of love, because the whole world is crying out for want of it!

Not the mushy, emotional, thing we think is love. The thing that demands, “Be this way, or that way. Be what I need, so I can love you.” No, what the world needs is real love, love that has no demands, makes no claims, and is marked by an outward focus.

The meaning of real love, or agapé, as the Greeks called it, encompasses the attributes of acceptance, equality, tolerance, and respect, yet is uniquely focused on the other. Love does not demand these things for itself, it extends them to the other. In its highest expression, true love is selfless love.

Thinking more about the needs of the other person elicits a change in me. As I begin to release my expectations of who the other person should be, accepting them as they are, I am able to really love them.

After all, this is how I want to be loved, as I am. Isn’t this the way God loves us? With. Out. Condition.

Yes, we should always strive to be the best version of ourselves, but love needs to be expressed along that process. The greatest gift you can give someone is to love them as they are, not as you think they should be.

Everyone loses as we continue to tout the importance of personal preferences, and promote the good of the individual, over the good of the whole.

What the world needs now is love, sweet love. But love that is extended, through acceptance, equality, tolerance, and respect. And this love is not just for some, but for everyone.


Threadbare Words is a series of pieces exploring thin, worn-out words. The idea is to examine their real meaning, consider their overuse and, finally take a fresh look at them through the filter of a 21st century mind to discern if they’re still relevant.


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4 thoughts on “Threadbare Words – LOVE

  1. This is one of my favorite Burt Bacharach songs. I agree with what you are saying. Unconditional love and acceptance sounds great, but requires great work and effort. But, it is worth it to offer this love to others.

    1. Denise, you are right! They sound great, but are difficult to carry out. Most of all because we’re all a little difficult to love. Worth the effort, and so lovely when we, ourselves receive this type of love.
      It was fascinating researching the singer, Jackie DeShannon. Quite a trailblazer in the music industry. One of the first women singer/songwriters. Thanks for the comment! And for stopping by.

  2. How well I remember those days. It seemed that everyone who had something to say was assassinated. And yet it was a time for focusing on a better world, too. Your piece makes me think of MLK’s words, “I’ll stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear.” I’m really loving your series.

    1. Thank you Carolyn. Hate is a great burden. I think our country changed a lot during those difficult years. Thanks for the comment, I’ll stick with love too.

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